He smiled, then turned serious again. “I’m not doing it to apologize. I’m doing it because I realized I built a whole life around priorities I never actually chose.”
That sentence stayed with me long after he said it. A life whose priorities I didn’t actually choose. Maybe that was the real story of both of us. Grant had spent years reacting to other people’s expectations — his mother’s, his employer’s, sometimes mine. I’d spent years reacting against expectations — my father’s name, my family’s money, everyone’s assumptions about what both of those things meant about me. Neither of us had stopped often enough to ask what we actually wanted, separate from what we were running from.
“What do you want?” I asked him.
He thought about it. “This.” He gestured toward the nursery around us. “You. Micah. Work I’m actually proud of. Dinner without checking my email twelve times.”