To learn.
To reconnect with myself.
To understand not just what had happened—but why it had affected me the way it did.
Healing isn’t just physical.
It’s emotional.
It’s psychological.
It’s about rebuilding trust—not just with others, but with yourself.
There were moments during that year where I questioned everything. I questioned my decisions, my understanding, even my sense of control over my own body. But slowly, over time, those questions began to turn into clarity.
I started to understand that what happened didn’t define me.
It didn’t determine my future experiences.
It didn’t mean that sex would always be painful or uncomfortable.
It simply meant that I had gone into it unprepared—and now I had the chance to learn, to grow, and to approach it differently.
And when I eventually did have sex again, it felt completely different.
