When I Was Six, I Promised My Best Friend We’d Go to Prom Together—Twelve Years Later, Mom Locked My Bedroom Door and Told Me the Truth

By lunchtime, we were inseparable.

Noah had Down syndrome, but at six years old, that mattered far less to me than the fact that he cheated at dinosaur trivia and laughed at my terrible drawings.

One afternoon, another boy in class told Noah that nobody would ever marry him.

I still remember Noah’s face falling.

“Somebody will love him,” I snapped.

The boy laughed.

“Then you marry him.”

Later, Noah found me alone.

“Chrissy… would you love me?”

At six, I had no idea what kind of question that really was.

“Maybe.”

His face brightened.

Then I remembered hearing my older cousin talk about prom.

“But first we have to go to prom.”

“What’s prom?”

“A dance you go to when you’re almost grown up.”

Noah held out his pinkie.

“Promise?”

I hooked mine around his.

“Promise.”

I forgot about it almost immediately.

Noah didn’t.

Over the next twelve years, our friendship survived different classes, changing interests, awkward teenage years, and everything else growing up threw at us.

Noah loved baseball statistics.

I loved art.

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