But I had spent years saving.
While friends traveled, upgraded cars, and ordered takeout constantly, I put money aside.
Eventually, I managed to buy a modest two-bedroom apartment.
It wasn’t huge.
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It wasn’t glamorous.
But when I held those keys for the first time, I remember standing alone in the empty living room thinking:
I built this.
Every chair.
Every lamp.
Every plate in the kitchen.
Every dollar of the mortgage.
Mine.
Then Mia’s relationship fell apart.
My twenty-six-year-old sister called me crying after breaking up with her boyfriend. Family
“I just need somewhere for a couple months,” she told me.
I immediately said yes.
That was my mistake.
Two months became four.
Four became six.
Then a year passed.
Mia stopped mentioning moving out entirely.
At first, I didn’t mind.
She was family. Justicesystem resources
But gradually, my apartment stopped feeling like mine.
Her clothes were everywhere.
Shoes by the door.
Makeup scattered across the bathroom.
Laundry covering the couch.
Her friends came over without asking.
Sometimes I would return from work and find four people drinking in my living room.
Whenever I complained, Mia always had an answer.
“You never do anything anyway.”
