Mine changed sides somewhere around the April. I could not tell you the day.
I started out protecting a dying man who had asked me to.
And by the May I was a nineteen-year-old with a letter in a drawer, deciding when two people were allowed to know where their son was.
They took ten years off me. That is true and I will not be talked out of it.
I took two weeks off them, in a room with a shared bathroom, and those two weeks were the only two that were ever going to matter.
If you are holding something because somebody asked you to —
check, every so often, whether they are still the reason.
Because the day it stops being about them and starts being about what it does to somebody else, it is not a promise any more.
It is just a thing you have got that they want.